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June 9, 2022

Challenging the stigma of sexual assault

Jade grew up in the Yarra Ranges and is a sexual assault survivor. She recently spoke at the Hidden Voices project where she used her experiences of trauma and assault to challenge the stigma that sexual assault survivors experience.

This article in three points

  • Jade is a young woman from the Yarra Ranges who is passionate about addressing the stigma around sexual assault, motivated by her own experiences.
  • She recently spoke publicly about her experiences which she says were very empowering.
  • Jade hopes to continue telling her story to other young people and believes that open and honest conversations about sexual assault are the key to getting rid of the shame and stigma that sexual assault survivors experience.

Trigger warning – This article discusses instances of child sexual assault.

The Hidden Voices project by the Eastern Community Legal Centre recently brought together eight people to share their powerful and inspiring stories to members of the public in events around the Yarra Ranges.

Jade’s history of sexual assault began when she was 13 years old. Not only did she experience significant mental trauma and physical impacts, but it also impacted her relationships with other people as she grew up.

She would ignore other instances of assault because they were behaviours that she believed to be normal. This continued after she turned 18, where she experienced further instances of rape.

For Jade, telling her story to a group of strangers gives her an enormous sense of power over her experiences and those who raped her.

She gets to take control of her story and use it to help educate others about consent and overcoming trauma.

While it has been a long journey for Jade, involving counselling and other mental health support, she is now eager to keep having the conversation.

“It was a slow process at first and I found it hard to talk about my trauma. It was only through working with a therapist that I started to feel a positive effect when discussing what I had experienced.”

“The first time I spoke about it at Hidden Voices was really empowering. It was the first time I’d ever talked publicly, and to strangers, about my life.”

“My journey is also happening at the same time as Grace Tame and the #MeToo movement creating really important public discussions about their experiences with sexual assault. It’s all based around having the courage and determination to talk openly about sexual assault – and for other people to have to courage and compassion to want to listen and reflect.”

“The discussions that we are seeing shows how big a problem sexual assault is and how much it occurs. It truly helps people in our community to hear that others have had similar experiences.”

Finding empowerment through discussion

“Experiencing sexual assault doesn’t make you weak or damaged. You are strong. I spent a lot of time thinking I was weak, but sexual assault doesn’t define you, only you get to do that. That is what empowerment is.”

“I find that people want to respond to these kinds of discussions in a range of ways and that’s the really powerful thing about it. The more people that speak up about it, the more discussion it creates and influences more people to speak up. That has the biggest effect on breaking the stigma around sexual assault.”

Jade says it’s really important to have safe spaces for people to tell their story. The Hidden Voices project did a lot of work behind the scenes to make sure that the people telling their stories at the sessions felt safe and supported.

“Being able to talk about your experiences gives you ownership and control over your own story. Sexual assault is about taking power and control away from you, so a big part of the recovery process is finding ways to reclaim control.”

“Being able to tell my story is a great way of finding my own source of power. Knowing that I am helping others to navigate their own experiences or helping to normalise these discussions in our community makes me feel even more powerful.”

Future goals

Now that the Hidden Voices project is wrapping up, Jade hopes to keep the discussion going.

She is currently studying to be a counsellor, so that she can help others who have experienced similar trauma in their lives.

She is also keen to work with schools to educate young people about sexual assault and consent.

“I really want to speak to young people and share my story. When I was young, I had no idea about consent, or what it looked like in practice.”

“I didn’t realise at the time that I was being sexually assaulted, because I didn’t understand consent. It’s not just a yes or no, and a lot of young people are not clear on it.”

“I believe that having a young person with lived-experience delivering education and information to other young people would have a really beneficial impact on their understanding of consent, and further reduce the stigma that sexual assault survivors experience.”

Get support

If this article has caused any distress, please consider getting in touch with the following:

For sexual assault support, please contact:

Eastern Centre Against Sexual Assault (ECASA) – 9870 7330
24 hour Sexual Assault Crisis Line – 1800 806 292
1800RESPECT – 1800 737 732

For free and confidential legal advice:

Eastern Community Legal Centre – 1300 325 200

Other support services

Lilydale Youth Hub – 03 9757 8777
Headspace Knox – (03) 9801 6088
Kids Help Line – 1800 55 1800
Lifeline – 13 11 14
13YARN – 13 92 76
Switchboard Victoria

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